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He’s too insecure??

He’s such a nice guy and we get along great. He’s always complimenting me and telling me I deserve good things. Super sweet and I wanna open him up more but he’s too self conscious. Always telling me he’s “too weird” to have a girlfriend and that he “doesn’t wanna make a bad impression”.

Disclaimer: he’s never been about getting ass. Never once asked me to hookup, in fact, he was TOO shy to even meet up with me. TOO shy to flirt with me and He was too shy to call me even though we did. It he was freaking out thinking he messed it up despite me trying to be as reassuring as I could.
He would always tell me he didn’t wanna come off as thirsty but he’d indulge in flirting every once and a while so I’m a little confused.
He’s confessed that he’s an over thinker, he’s sensitive, and he has trouble trusting people.

I’ve given him so many shots to compliment or take initiative but he wouldn’t. He also pointed out that whenever someone likes him, he isn’t that great at picking it up....
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He’s Seemed so worried about what I think of him....that is until recently??
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He deleted me off Snapchat. He still has me on Instagram and still has my number but he blocked me from seeing his stories on Instagram...
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I don’t think I’m necessarily the problem. Things were going so good and I thought he was different but apparently he’s not feeling it anymore??
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I texted him to ask if anything was okay with him, he said yeah, asked how I was doing and then told me he wants to call me when he’s back from vacation but I didn’t respond at that point cause what’s the point? Apparently he’s lying :)
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Somethings fishy. I smell insecurities. I think he’s giving up. Maybe that’s why he’s pulling away. I dunno, I’m pretty patient. I’m just not gonna talk to him this week and leave it at that... if he wants to call me this weekend like he said then we’ll talk.....I wonder if the next girl will be as patient as I was.
MikeSp · 56-60, M
The insecurities stem from him being immature for his age. Possibly on the spectrum or stunted development. At this time he enjoys your company but is nowhere capable of committing to anything serious. Just remain friends and see how he grows, but meanwhile date others.
ancientmariner · 61-69, M
Confidence is sexy insecurity is not imho
Sb356 · 26-30, F
@ancientmariner yeah im starting to see that🥴🥴🥴
Sb356 · 26-30, F
And I thought I was bad
Livingwell · 61-69, M
Maybe he’s just shy. It seems you like the hard to get type.

 
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