Sweetness or spice?

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Sweetness

Spice

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Who prefers romance, all sweet and gentle and nurturing? And who prefers bantering, all fun roasts and subtle arousal and tests of sharp wit that build the flames towards an eruption of passion ?

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SW-User

For me, a well rounded relationship has all of that, sweetness & spice, minus the bickering.

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ShieldUp · 26-30, M

@th3r0n I should change it to bantering, which carries a lighter-hearted connotation

SW-User

@th3r0n I don't do toxic relationships so, if that's what he meant, I'm not surprised I misunderstood the question.

th3r0n · 41-45, M

@SW-User yeah I get out quick before even dating when I see toxicity, but I enjoy light banter as long as it's just playful

Northwest · M

Bickering, roasts, and tests are not part of my definition of spice.

That aside, the combination of romantic and spice, works best for me.

DragonSlayerr · 26-30, F

A little bit of both is fun. I kind of have the “spice” personality but not in a mean way. I enjoy good banter and testing wit as a part of flirting. I’m not particularly sensitive either. But I like sweetness too.

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th3r0n · 41-45, M

I'm all for sweetness, I love being gentle and sweet with a woman, and how I love to get that sweetness back

Banter and play has its place, but gentleness and affection are what I favor most

ShieldUp · 26-30, M

@th3r0n A good principle

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