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What do you guys think?

Does he really care about me? Or is he just playing with me?
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Look Lets just start off by saying: I DO in fact have difficulties believing in the intentions of others/ trust issues.

But I met this really cool guy and in fact, I’ve known him for pretty much two years...it’s only recently (two months ago) that we’ve decided we wanted to “get to know each other” more.
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He’s super sweet, super kind, always checks up on me and seems to care about me. He even remembers things that I’ve told him from a while back... which is bonkers to me cause I’m so used to being over looked.

last night he seen that I was upset so he texted me and asked if everything was okay. Hes (seemingly) willing to be there and talk about these things with me and told me that I could always text him when I need....he asks me a lot about myself and my passions and good stuff like that.

He’s super shy and isn’t too forward with the flirting but it’s there. He’s confessed to me that he’s an over thinker and he’s not good enough to get a gf....sensing some low self esteem there...
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I feel like he does care but I’m so used to guys not caring that I feel like that’s gonna happen.
He wants to get to know me, we text a lot. We had planned to call but he got drunk and miscommunication happened but he reached out and apologized about it the next day which i appreciated a lot.
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It’s a lot, I know. Part of me gets insecure thinking he’s just gonna ignore me like the rest but part of me is still hopeful that he’s different....and honestly so far he seems like it but I don’t wanna speak too soon.
cd4259 · 61-69, M
He is shy and you are unsure. Just take it slowly, be friends and let things blossom naturally, don't push it or over analyze things.
Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M
He sounds like he has some pain in the past or low self esteem which is holding him back from being vulnerable and open to you. I actually relate a lot to him as I used to be a little like that, I'd be a little slow to come around if I were looking for a relationship now.
Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M
@Sb356 Haha yeah he probably doesn't know how to deal with it yet.
I was exactly the same. Honestly I think if you're just patient with him he'll get some confidence and be more comfortable with you. It took someone to bring that out of me.
Sb356 · 26-30, F
@Ryannnnnn Am I ever free to message you for some advice or tips if needed? :)
Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M
@Sb356 Yeah sure :)

 
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