How would you feel about women being in charge about relationships?

@NickiHijab To be honest, when this question came to my mind, I thought of the song "Exes and Oh's" by Elle King, reminding me of one woman at university who first had me interested in her whilst another woman was interested in me, then that other woman found another guy who she tried to make me jealous with, who later fell for the woman I used to fall for. As if it was far easier for her to make men fall for her than the one trying to make men jealous :P

@scooogy this gave me a headache. That's not even a love triangle. It's a love octagon. Is there a happy ending here at any point?

@NickiHijab Kind of, the seemingly desperate woman seemed to finally give up on me :P

@scooogy Good for her lol.

@NickiHijab why her? :o

@scooogy because she's no longer wasting time. Surely that's a good thing for her. Nothing towards you

@NickiHijab It's alright :3 you know, somehow I find dating during college a waste of time anyway. I mean yes, we all have our needs, but there are many options available. She didn't keep any of her exes for longer than a year, being friends with a woman who kept her boyfriend for 3 years and longer.

@scooogy Dating in University is usually a means to an end and that's to fulfil their needs. That being said it isn't always like that. I knew of a few couples that were together even after they graduated.

@NickiHijab what about STIs if they change partners during university?