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What are your views on open relationships and cheating?

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I do not get lost in titles, labels and imaginary club rules

Have I been used before? .... yep

Have I helped? .... far more than I have hurt

Do I have regrets? ... only that I have feelings too

Am I a great date? ... that is what I am told

Am I packaged? ... no way

Do I recommend galaxy relationships? ... not really, but nobody plans them

Is love good? ... always
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
@questionWeaver I would certainly go out on the town with you. We would have a log of fun and I know I would feel special at the end of the night, no doubt.
HeavenBesideYou · 56-60, F
Why would you regret having feelings? It’s what makes us human. @questionWeaver
@HeavenBesideYou being a slave to your emotions is weakness and shows a lack of self control
@Fungirlmmm Thank you Fun ... I would be honored and intrigued ... yes, you would be quite special ... and surely smiling by the end of the evening .. as would I!
HeavenBesideYou · 56-60, F
Having no emotions isn’t truly living. Might as well be a machine. @Master5dad
@HeavenBesideYou like I said have control over them is what the goal is not throwing them away otherwise your reacting to every hormone release you have
@HeavenBesideYou so true ... I do admit that I care
HeavenBesideYou · 56-60, F
Feeling your feelings isn’t a lack of control. It’s what we’re here to do. Experience life. @Master5dad
No you're hear you master and have control of yourself and your emotions if you lack self control then you have failed and are not mature. If you can't control the car you are driving you fail but once you have control of it you have mastered it @HeavenBesideYou
HeavenBesideYou · 56-60, F
Caring is good stuff. Big hearts are the best hearts. 🏆@questionWeaver
HeavenBesideYou · 56-60, F
A car is a machine and I’m not. 🤷‍♀️ @Master5dad
@HeavenBesideYou yes ... caring is my natural state
@HeavenBesideYou you are the machine you are driving through life this is just an example do you just let your emotions run wild with every situation you encounter? If so I am sorry for you
HeavenBesideYou · 56-60, F
Mine too, and I’ve reached the place where I wouldn’t change that for anything. @questionWeaver
HeavenBesideYou · 56-60, F
I’m not saying people aren’t responsible for how they behave, but don’t feel sorry for me for being a deep feeling person. Im glad I’m built this way. @Master5dad
@HeavenBesideYou I never said feeling the feelings are bad but what you do with them or how you react matters
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
@HeavenBesideYou Honestly your depth of feeling is one of the reasons that you are and always will be my bestie in life. You are amazing and real. Even if you do send me buckets of pecans in my dreams. Lol
@Fungirlmmm

Pecans .....

HeavenBesideYou · 56-60, F
Ok. I’ll agree to a certain extent, but as long as no one is harmed by them I don’t see where it’s anyone’s business how they’re dealt with. @Master5dad
HeavenBesideYou · 56-60, F
And little bags of them in reality. 😉@Fungirlmmm
HeavenBesideYou · 56-60, F
@questionWeaver They’re amazing. 😁
It can hurt you if you let sadness from a break up to far or you completely fall for someone that is not as in love as you are these are dangerous things for you to do @HeavenBesideYou
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
@questionWeaver Lol she makes me care packages and I love chocolate covered nuts, especially pecans. She always sends me those, but I must have had it on my mind because I dreamed I was sitting on an upside down bucket in my yard eating pecans out of a huge bucket. Lol
HeavenBesideYou · 56-60, F
As we go through life, we experience many things, and you know what? I believe we are meant to experience all of it. The pleasures and the pain. @Master5dad
I'm not saying we shouldn't feel it but don't let it control your actions. Disappointment becomes sadness becomes depression which leads to staying home after a bad break up gaining weight or hurting yourself for months and becoming bitter. Or liking someone falling for them becoming obsessed stalking or overspending on them and chasing them away. You have to have control of yourself and to your emotions. @HeavenBesideYou