How do you deal with jealous exes?

My girlfriend’s exes have been causing a lot of stress and anxiety for her and me. Two of her exes want to get back together with her, and it’s making bonding difficult because they are both jealous and constantly get mad at her for being with me. She has no interest in being with either, but she has no boundaries when it comes to dealing with them.

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Stark

She obviously doesn’t take your relationship seriously enough if she’s not able to take care of that situation on her own, and just deal with it. I’d take it as a warning sign personally if she’s letting ex’s prevent your relationship from growing and progressing. Maybe she’s not over them ? Or enjoy the attention? Regardless, doesn’t seem like a good sign. She could easily block them, and handle the situation in a much better way if she truly was ready to move on. For your sake, I would end it personally. Or just bring that to her attention 🤷🏽‍♀️ But, it’s already a bad sign for me if this is happening I don’t think i’d even want to continue the relationship 😂

I had a problem with my ex and it was a nightmare, but I didn’t dare involve my dating life into it. And I did my best in handling the situation, and quickly putting it to an end. I don’t think it’s fair to the person you’re dating to have to experience an ex being a problem.