He calls me babygirl but were not dating

I hate that . Being called that . It’s condescending !

Ewww...sounds too loose that character....

He is trying to give you a clear picture of his expectations for your first date and potential future relationship, to give you food-for-thought..
Your first kiss will let him know if you want to be his "babby doll" and a potential D/S relationship..

Soooooo... bite back...

If he wants to be on a friendly familiar basis, he has to earn - until that time you have a name, if not, you have someplace better to be.

It's just an expression. It can be endearing. Keep talking and see where it goes.

He's weird.

Eww

gross

That’s a weird term, anyway. 🤔