At what are would/did you consider settling down?

@HootyTheNightOwl was? what happened?

@scooogy Nothing... yet. i'm still married at the moment.

@HootyTheNightOwl What made you get married that early?

@scooogy Cancer. my mother in law was dying from terminal cancer and my now husband wanted her to see at least one of her children marry in her lifetime.

Sadly, she died a few weeks before we could make that a reality and we couldn't afford to cancel the wedding.

@HootyTheNightOwl I'm sorry for you.

@scooogy i'm happy now, i have my Sire and He goes a long way in helping to keep the abuse that i suffer at the hands of my husband down.

Without Him, i'd still be getting by on one meal a day and struggling to get a balanced diet.

@HootyTheNightOwl I have the same with my crush since I got stalked for years.

@scooogy i still have issues with eating big meals - i feel "greedy" for eating what was once considered to be a normal meal for me, and Sire has to remind me that it's okay to eat it all without saving any for the next meal.

@HootyTheNightOwl My crush helped me get over my fear of suspecting women to do creepy things behind my back. Like my stalker followed me around and spied on my friends and even my home.

@scooogy It's great that you are taking steps in the right direction. Hopefully, in time, we will both be able to rejoin normal lives again.

@HootyTheNightOwl Yeah, on the other hand I didn't find help for my case so far, since I even used to have several women bother me short-term.