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Are you more emotionally attached in general compared to others? Did anyone ever take advantage of it?

I give a lot of time and importance to my relationships and people think it is a sign of weakness. They think im a pushover
There are LOTS of people who've taken advantage of their and my emotional attachment to each other. That's the way it works. It's a symbiotic relationship. One feeds off of the other. And it's very unhealthy.
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Emotionally attached to what?
Tellmeaboutyourself · 26-30, F
@SW-User to people, investing more in a relationship
Miram · 31-35, F
I was. I learnt better 🙃
Tellmeaboutyourself · 26-30, F
@Miram Are you bitter about it?
Miram · 31-35, F
@Tellmeaboutyourself

No, I had to grow out the phase of owning people and learn to love without it. I can't own their loyalty or love

I do have fears of some dying but all else is a loss I can cope with as long as it's for their best.
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More like detached
Tellmeaboutyourself · 26-30, F
@SW-User good in a way, bad in a way
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
Story of my life. People don't seem to appreciate it.
Tellmeaboutyourself · 26-30, F
@PaleandPolluted Exactly! That's the problem of being good to them. I therefore cut down people who dont respect me in the same way i do. Im hanging out with one who are on same wavelength with me now
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@Tellmeaboutyourself its baffling, when someone thinks of me and they are just nice and gentle i like them more.
Tellmeaboutyourself · 26-30, F
@PaleandPolluted i know, i guess some people are just emotionally inept and people like us seem to cross their paths
I tend to cut out emotions and use rationality now
Tellmeaboutyourself · 26-30, F
@Complexconfessions do you feel bad that you have changed because of the people around you?
@Tellmeaboutyourself I feel bad for them. Im not the one suffering because of it
Tellmeaboutyourself · 26-30, F
@Complexconfessions that's another side to it which dint cross my mind
yeronlyman · 51-55, M
Personality plays a role in that
And relationship dynamics
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Yes I'm emotionally attached to my family.
YoungPoet345 · 26-30, F
Yes. But no one is taking advantage of it now.
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All the fucking time.
Tellmeaboutyourself · 26-30, F
@SW-User :(
Chevy454 · 46-50, M
Yes. Very much so
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I used to be and Yes

 
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