How should I approach this girl?

There is this girl that lives about an hour away from me, I live in a very small town with very few women my age. We have a lot of mutual friends, and I have messaged her once on instagram (casually replying to her story) but have never met in person, what should be my next step?

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GohantheThird · M

You can either keep messaging her on instagram (which will get you nowhere), or you can try stalking her at an event that she's attending (unless you know her personally, this is a bad idea).

I'm going to be honest, I don't think you have a great shot. Then again, some have worked wonders with less.