Do you prefer grand gestures of love or see love in the little things your partner does?

Lol for me a card with a thoughtful message one of my favorite poems and little things like the dishes are already done or dinners ready for me. I like hugs and kisses having my hair played with picking up my favorite treat, calling me beautiful etc but I’m trying to learn to accept bigger gestures from my husband because he thinks it’s what I deserve. 🥰