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How do you stand out with so many pretty women to compete agaisnt?

I have been finding its hard daitngnin LA with so many women to compete with, like being pretty is not enough when there are so many around! What are some things that can make me stand out?
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perceptivei · 36-40, F
LA? Phewey! That would be overwhelming! If I lived there --- this is me being honest --- I'd 1) Workout like crazy and do everything I can to [i]feel good[/i] about my looks and 2) I'd really focus on who I am and take pride in who I've become. You know, there are beautiful women everywhere. You must find yourself deep down and stand out in a crowd, because you exude confidence. They don't even have to know you, but if you know yourself and [i][b]love yourself[/b][/i], you won't even feel like you're competing anymore. Confidence does that... There is no real competition when you love yourself. You'll know there is someone out there who is just right for you, and he'll be lucky to have you. It's different when you know and take pride in who you are, because then you'll just admire the beauty around you. I do believe in love. That's why I mentioned finding someone who is right for you. If you don't believe in love, believe in love for yourself at the very least.

One more thing, all those beautiful women you see in LA --- they are all insecure and feel just like you if not worse. Beautiful women are the most insecure beings on this earth. They're lucky if they ever find a way to get past their looks and shallowness. Most do not.