What should I do?

My bf leaves me home alone w our four month old baby.

Abt 3 Years ago my bf invited me to hang out w his friends .. However I'm not a late night person. One time while hanging out I became sleepy n my bf refused to drop me home, I became angry n his friends noticed. Since then he My bf stopped taking me out since.

Last night his friends dropped him home and I know they all went to the beach during the day. I was home alone w baby.

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Spoiledbrat · F

He shouldn’t party so much. Some people don’t have goals or hobbies. They’re happy just to drink and hang out.

destinyfabulous · 36-40, F

@Spoiledbrat true.... He might be inheriting a piece of land soon, I think thats why he not saving and so careless.

Spoiledbrat · F

It’s good that he has something to offer you and your baby but the choice is up to you. I was just making a point by suggesting you cheat. Of course you have to do what’s best for you. @destinyfabulous

SatanBurger · 36-40, F

@destinyfabulous Just going based off what you say because I don't really know you or him. However, that's "might be," not a for sure thing that he'll inherit land.

Even if he does inherit land, being lazy and leaving you home while he goes to party is irresponsible. Look, people [b]are allowed[/b] to go out sometimes even if you do have children but being totally careless isn't the way to go about it.

This should really be an equal deal here between you two, there is no part time with having a family. You ([b]not[/b] you specifically) don't have a kid and think you can just shun responsibility.

To be honest, it sounds like a warning sign of where the relationship is heading in the future. I'm not trying to be cold but a quick observation tells me that isn't going to end well.