Can you still be with someone if you aren't into their fetish?

@Specialyouare we get along fine and love eachother and the sex is great. I just feel like it will eventually be an issue.

@DreamyCrush agreed. Commonalities are important. I just find it hard to pour my soul into the other person, and then have it belittled and made fun of over and over and over again. I'm afriad if we break up, that she will use her knowlege of this against me. It sucks that everytime I become fully vulerable to a woman, they always have to gawk at it with there friends/family. Sorry for ranting. Not trying to direct any anger towards you or women in general. Just amgry at life i guess...

@Badunk I understand and agree with you. No offense taken.

@DreamyCrush Thanks, for understanding. This is the only place I really get to talk about this stuff.

@330GTC can you explain?

@Badunk I want very much to induce lactation in my wife. She isn't really a fan. So we compromise and do other things. I haven't made it a do or die thing.
I guess compromise is one way to deal with it.

@330GTC has she ever told her friends about it, or anything like that?

@TryingtoLava i'm into being pregnant. And I also happen to find pregnant women/pregnancy beautiful. Not men or children for christ sake. Just looking for some advice free from shame. Lol

@Badunk o i c well i wont shame you but my personal opinion is ew

@TryingtoLava fair enough. Thanks for the civility.

@curiosi can you please elaborate?

@Badunk I am authentically me, I don't play games and I don't pretend. I am also perfectly fine being single, if I meet someone they would have to be really special for me to give up single life. Playing pretend is not something I am willing to do.

@curiosi oh. I see. That's what i'm trying to figure out. If she's playing pretend with our relationship. Well put.

@Badunk just not my style.😖

@Indy74 ok. Lol to each their own. Everybody has there own desires. Everybody shits their pants too!

@Badunk of course!!!😂