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Why do my friends keep bugging me about finding a man?

I haven't dated in five months. I just got out of a relationship. My best friend said, "We gotta work on finding YOU a man. Don't you wanna nice guy?"
My ex boyfriend was a jerk to me and insulted my deceased mother and said I needed to stop grieving over a woman that didn't give a shit about me. I dumped his ass. We've been together for 11 months. July would have been a year. My friends invited me to the Valentine's day dance. It's a special needs dance for adults. I'll go but I'm not there to find a man. I don't want one. My there friend said, "Never say never. You might meet someone. You're a very pretty girl, you're going to find someone. Besides you gotta get into the dating scene. A few months ago, they told me I wait until I'm ready. Now they're telling me I need to find a man. They both got new boyfriend's. They're almost NEVER single. They told me I'm almost 30 and it's time to start looking.
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TheunderdogofNY · 36-40, M
Sometimes I wish people would mind their business when it comes to certain things. People will date when they feel the time is right for them and you can’t force it. It just sucks when people want and think they know what’s best for you without asking you.