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Two of my best friends have split up.

I'm feeling very sad. Two of my best friends have split up.

I was friends with them both before they were a couple and essentially I was the catalyst to their introduction to each other.

Now they are spilt it's hard because I do not want to be seen as taking sides in any way.

I've spoken at length with one on the phone today and will see the other one tomorrow.

I feel sad for them, even though deep down I'm not surprised and actually feel it might be the right thing. But also I feel really conflicted about my friendships with them both now.
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SW-User
Stay out of it
SW-User
@SW-User I'm worried I'll not be able /allowed to.
SW-User
@SW-User How so?
SW-User
@SW-User that one will ask something about the other etc. I just need to be independent from the start.
SW-User
Then don’t get too involved. Be clear that you are not going to pick sides. If they’re worth keeping they should not turn on you.You have the right to tell them how this whole thing is affecting you negatively. If they care about your feelings they should avoid dragging you into this whole drama.

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