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Do you have "somebody that you used to know" ?

Someone you were with but now you know nothing of them.
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MellyMel22 · F
[i][c=#BF0080]Yep.. [/c][/i]
SheykYarbouti · 26-30, M
@MellyMel22 Do you still have feelings for them ?
MellyMel22 · F
@SheykYarbouti [i][c=#BF0080]I don’t think the feelings ever changed, but I wish they did. It’d be easier. [/c][/i]
SheykYarbouti · 26-30, M
@MellyMel22 That sucks, how do you cope ?
MellyMel22 · F
@SheykYarbouti [i][c=#BF0080]I try to remind myself he doesn’t care, why should I? Sometimes it works, sometimes it hurts. [/c][/i]
SheykYarbouti · 26-30, M
@MellyMel22 Why should you care ? I think it's just out of pure goodness, so it shouldn't hurt when you care. (man I just resolved this by myself)
MellyMel22 · F
@SheykYarbouti [i][c=#BF0080]If only that was the case.. When there are real feelings connected to a person you knew more than a friend and no longer know, it can be hurtful to care still. [/c][/i]
MellyMel22 · F
@SheykYarbouti [i][c=#BF0080]Glad you figured out what helps you though 🙂[/c][/i]
SheykYarbouti · 26-30, M
@MellyMel22 no but like, I know, why I care, I just want them to be good because they're like one my favorite people in the whole world, it's not a negative thought, it's a positive thought.
Am I right ?
MellyMel22 · F
@SheykYarbouti [i][c=#BF0080]You can wish the best for someone and still hurt.

Why would you let one of your favorites go? [/c][/i]
SheykYarbouti · 26-30, M
@MellyMel22 it shouldn't hurt, nothing bad should come out of something good.
And is that question to me or like in general?
MellyMel22 · F
@SheykYarbouti [i][c=#BF0080]I guess if things left off well with no hurt feelings it’d be good. Most relationships don’t end well from what I’ve noticed.

Yeah, it was meant to you- I assumed by your response you were missing one/some. [/c][/i]
SheykYarbouti · 26-30, M
@MellyMel22 mine ended well but I didn't want her out of my life (but that's what happened )
And why I let things end was because circumstances changed, you meet someone at a time in your life and it's good but after a while circumstances change and you see there's no future to the relationship or it's going to be super hard to keep things the way they are. So you agree to end things and keep contact or whatever just be there for each other but the latter fails and that sucks big time.
Man I wrote a lot.
MellyMel22 · F
@SheykYarbouti [i][c=#BF0080]It wasn’t a lot..

Well I’m sorry to hear it didn’t work out. Honestly I think if the feelings were there both would’ve tried harder. When you love someone enough, you find a way and work through it. Of course it takes two, so both would need to feel the same which these days seems pretty rare. [/c][/i]
SheykYarbouti · 26-30, M
@MellyMel22 it doesn't matter now, looking back at it this way isn't gonna do any good, I just hate missing her when she's not there anymore.
MellyMel22 · F
@SheykYarbouti [i][c=#BF0080]I understand, it stinks.. but I hope you feel better about it or that things change for the better..

What if she feels the same?Are you sure she doesn’t?[/c][/i]
SheykYarbouti · 26-30, M
@MellyMel22 Yeah, she doesn't wanna be friends, she wants either a relationship or nothing.
MellyMel22 · F
@SheykYarbouti [i][c=#BF0080]She’s told you that? [/c][/i]
DonaldTrumpet · 70-79, M
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SheykYarbouti · 26-30, M
@MellyMel22 She didn't but we agreed to stay friends and she's no longer here. It's unspoken but it's there.
MellyMel22 · F
@DonaldTrumpet [i][c=#BF0080]Well yeahhh[/c][/i]
DonaldTrumpet · 70-79, M
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MellyMel22 · F
@SheykYarbouti [i][c=#BF0080]That’s rough.. I know how you feel though. Sorry to hear that. Sounds like it may be too painful to have just a friendship. [/c][/i]
MellyMel22 · F
@DonaldTrumpet [i][c=#BF0080]Trueee[/c][/i]
DonaldTrumpet · 70-79, M
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SheykYarbouti · 26-30, M
@MellyMel22 could be right