Never knew life could be this lonely

Ur not the only one! I found it so after I got married & me & my husband have a number of mutual friends but when we ask them to stuff we wanna do we dont get a response but all the single ones get invited out for parties... but not us... we wanna go but got blocked out so... so much for being 'friends' we atent the only couple to be affected... one 'friend' I was close with... we used to meet regularly but once I was dating someone & eventually got married I wasnt important.. I still made time for him but he said he had mental problems... but still went out drinking with 'our mates' we still made the effort but now dont get it back... what gives... we both feel isolated...