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Tatsumi · 31-35, M
No. When you know you have value, it doesn't really matter too much what one person thinks. Even if they're a really great person, and you care about them and want them to like you. In the end, they're most likely exchangeable, like we all are.
The trick, as I have found, is making yourself the least interchangeable you can. Obtain as much value as possible, so you aren't so obsessed over one person, because you have a lot of options.
People say it a lot, but then you can think it really is [i]their[/i] loss.
The trick, as I have found, is making yourself the least interchangeable you can. Obtain as much value as possible, so you aren't so obsessed over one person, because you have a lot of options.
People say it a lot, but then you can think it really is [i]their[/i] loss.
@Tatsumi takes experience to get to that point mentally. I can definitely appreciate your stand on the topic now.