I’ve been seeing a married girl for a few weeks...

It started out as a hot flingy scandalous thing but I think we started to like each other especially after our all-day fun this past Wednesday.

Now we are trying to renegotiate what we are. It feels different.

It may have run its course.

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IntenseCookie · 26-30, F

I understand situations are complicated but maybe let the person she's made a very public commitment to that you want to let your relationship with her "run its course"

GardenSage · 36-40, M

She came on to me... she withheld her marriage status but she slipped and I busted her... not that I really cared. But I didn’t lure her away or anything. @IntenseCookie

IntenseCookie · 26-30, F

@GardenSage Your argument is that because you didn't know right away it's okay to continue the affair?

GardenSage · 36-40, M

@IntenseCookie my argument is: it’s her affair not mine. Who am I to question the terms of their relationship? She clearly felt secure and justified enough to pursue me.

IntenseCookie · 26-30, F

@GardenSage Ultimitely it's your decision. I feel like a random SW thread wouldn't change your mind on the subject. I just don't meet a lot of people who are so giddy to be a homewrecker

GardenSage · 36-40, M

@IntenseCookie I’m not giddy. That’s a pretty baseless accusation actually.

And I’m not a homewrecker either.

I don’t want her to leave her husband or for her to get caught. I’m just navigating a tricky situation and posting about it here. It’s just the chronicles of my life.

IntenseCookie · 26-30, F

@GardenSage if you say so

GardenSage · 36-40, M

@IntenseCookie lol who tf are you? Judgy little bitch

IntenseCookie · 26-30, F

@GardenSage 🤷‍♀️