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I’m shallow af.
I won’t lie to myself about that. I have to be attracted to her physically to get it started.
Then the getting to know them comes into play like having similar interests, cleanliness, organized basically find out if we actually ‘click’ together.
🤔🤷 some people are offended by the first bit but I strongly feel it’s important to not start on a lie in a relationship. I know what I want in a partner so why lie to myself or her?
I won’t lie to myself about that. I have to be attracted to her physically to get it started.
Then the getting to know them comes into play like having similar interests, cleanliness, organized basically find out if we actually ‘click’ together.
🤔🤷 some people are offended by the first bit but I strongly feel it’s important to not start on a lie in a relationship. I know what I want in a partner so why lie to myself or her?