Would you eventually get irritated at your spouse or partner if?

@SW-User you don't know that...?

@MartinTheFirst I don't know about being a slob although he is sometimes, but it is lazy. I do have anxiety although I dont like to talk about it. My point is that both partners have to try and I'm doing everything and I feel he doesn't try. Hes so happy in the house all day while I have to go out and brave the world. Dont you think it's hard for me too? It's not fair when I'm trying so hard that's my point that he doesn't get. Hes angry and " hurt" when I ask him to go to any social event and believe me it's not often. I'm am introvert but the difference is I believe that I must occasionally make an effort while hes happy to rely 100% on only me.

@REMsleep Well it sounds like you might not understand his issues. He should see a therapist

@MartinTheFirst even I have anxiety but that is no excuse for that guy to be an absolute bum and not support his wife, any other woman would throw him out

@SW-User Just because you have anxiety it doesn't mean you can place yourself in their shoes. It's one of the corner stones of psychology, "You can't know what someone else is going through".

Perhaps he isn't ready for a relationship of this magnitude because of his issues but yet somehow thrown himself in there either way.

@MartinTheFirst if he isn’t ready he should stop being such a loser of a partner to this poor woman doing everything herself

@SW-User See how that's void of logic? You just said "he isn't ready" and (paraphrase) "he should be more ready" in the same sentence.

What he should do is to break up and stay single.

@MartinTheFirst am I supposed to clap for you now?

@SW-User fap*