Would you eventually get irritated at your spouse or partner if?

They kinda sort claim to have some sort of anxiety which I believe to be true. I have really bad anxiety but I get up daily and take my licks. I do what I have to. What if my partner is so lazy and will go out to eat around people for food( mainly to go but some indoor restaurants if buffet), dosent work, ask for whatever items they want freely for his "business " that dosent make money, dosent leave the house except to eat but when 3 or 4 times yearly I ask him to accompany me to some kind of small gathering or event and he refuses. This pisses me off. I don't care if you dont like people. Suck it up.