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I suppose if you care enough about the relationship, want to make it work, and most importantly see potential in it actually working then you talk it out. Make your partner aware of how you’re feeling, and if they’re genuinely concerned, and attempt to make a change then all should be alright. If not, then just end it. 👻
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@Spoiledbrat if we’re talking about the person’s question, and not your personal problems then that wasn’t exactly how I viewed the post. It’s difficult to say the person is emotionally abandoning this person without knowing the full context/details of the situation. There wasn’t very much information to straight out accuse their partner of being that way. They could be that way, but there’s no telling, because that wasn’t included in the post. All that was included was that she felt alone, and not a priority. There are situations where people have so much attention and love given towards them, and still feel alone. Not to say that’s the case in this situation, but I don’t know the full context of this situation. And I’m not someone to quickly assume without knowing more of the situation. So, my advice is if she cares about the relationship enough and see a potential growth in it as in there will be a change in how she’s feeling, and the relationship working then she should talk it out. If she doesn’t see a possibility of that happening and no change then she should end it. Simple.
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Of course she should end it but she might not be able to. I really feel strongly that when it’s over it’s over no matter where the two live.@Stark I think talking it out is too obvious to be advice. I mean talking it out is always the first thing one does. That’s why I said what I said.
@Spoiledbrat I don’t think that’s always the case. It’s never that black and white with relationships. I think some effort should be put into them before just assuming or giving up so easily. Relationships are not perfect, and people are not always going to feel secure in their relationships no matter what. That’s why I think communication is important. If you’ve already put in that effort, and voiced your feelings, and nothing has changed then it makes sense to end it. This is all if you care enough to fix the relationship and you see potential in it. But if you don’t which is okay then ending it is best.
@Spoiledbrat to reply to your second comment, talking it out is the obvious first choice, but not many people do it. It’s very common for communication to be lacking in relationships. Where people are not on the same page or one person thinks everything is okay, while the other doesn’t. It’s a common fault in relationships.
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Talk it or cheat. @Stark
@Spoiledbrat Lol
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