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How can you be happy on your own without wanting to have someone in your life?

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Tatsumi · 31-35, M
I think it's independence vs dependence. Like, when I was a teenager, I was totally codependent. I *couldn't* live on my own; I needed--and I assume you mean romantically--a romantic partner to even survive.

Now, I don't [i]need[/i] a romantic partner. Independence vs dependence.

If you, like, can't survive without a romantic partner, finding a hobby is a great idea. "Anxious" style lovers tend to do a lot better when they have somewhere else to place their focus.