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Break ups suck!

It's hard to find someone that is compatable. 馃槥
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SimplyTracie26-30, F
I鈥檓 curious, which is more important to you? Compatibility or commonality?
Stevy46-50, M
@SimplyTracie don't mean to be vague, but both.
SimplyTracie26-30, F
@Stevy. Of course having both would be awesome but which would be more important to you? Just if you cannot have both.
Stevy46-50, M
@SimplyTracie I guess compatibility, simply because I feel commonality can grow with a relationship.
SimplyTracie26-30, F
@Stevy That鈥檚 true
Stevy46-50, M
@SimplyTracie what's your opinion?
SimplyTracie26-30, F
@Stevy For me I think the opposite. I think doing the fun things together helps grow the relationship. For example, if you enjoy sports and your SO doesn鈥檛, I cannot imagine how your relationship can bloom.
But I鈥檓 not in a relationship so who am I to say.
Stevy46-50, M
@SimplyTracie well I guess that makes it hard to decide.馃馃槒
SimplyTracie26-30, F
@Stevy Yeah. I think having mutual respect for each other is most important. Lacking that, no relationship will flourish. Right?
Stevy46-50, M
@SimplyTracie Yes, I agree completely. Respect is most important.
SimplyTracie26-30, F
@Stevy Now that we鈥檝e come this far... what was the reason for your breakup. I鈥檓 just curious (I鈥檓 always curious).
Stevy46-50, M
@SimplyTracie exactly what we were chatting about, to many things we did not have in common. Whatever I liked to do she didn't want to do them. And myself to. But I did try to do some of the things she liked to do. Plus I'm a family guy and she never wanted to visit mine. We always visited hers. I could go on,but this is to long already.
SimplyTracie26-30, F
@Stevy That鈥檚 plenty enough to get a clear picture. I get it.
Stevy46-50, M
@SimplyTracie it was a mutual break, but I'm still a little down about it.
SimplyTracie26-30, F
@Stevy Better sooner than later I think. Go find the girl you have the most fun together.
Stevy46-50, M
@SimplyTracie thank you. I appreciate the conversation. Helped get my mind off of it for a little while. I wish you the same.
SimplyTracie26-30, F
@Stevy Thank you. And you鈥檙e welcome.
Stevy46-50, M
@SimplyTracie hope we can chat again some time.
SimplyTracie26-30, F
@Stevy Of course. 馃槉