Is it weird I would still love something if they weren't good in bed?

@bijouxbroussard I asked because my parents have always had the attitude of "bed them first, if they aren't good then don't marry them". So I thought me wanting to stay with them was the unusual way of thinking.

@Billybob2 No offense, but that’s a shallow viewpoint. A longterm relationship is about much more than sex. I think you have the right idea. Just out of curiosity, do you have sisters, and would your parents advise them to sleep with partners first ?

@bijouxbroussard I don't have sisters, no

@Billybob2 Yes, it’s generally not something people tell their daughters to do. Are they still together ?

@bijouxbroussard they are

@Billybob2 That’s cool.

@bijouxbroussard me personally, if she just wasn't good and didn't get better I'd just find other ways to have a good time with her.

@bijouxbroussard Actually I think it was worse, my dad said to bed her before I decide I even like her!

@Billybob2 I don’t think that’s good advice, and it’s how a person might feel used. I think your attitude is admirable.

@Billybob2 Your Dad is right, don't be shy

@jimjim1969 you must not like women very much if you think they’re to be used.