This is so embarrassing, sigh

Whenever I’m particularly turned on, I find that my eyes get very bedroom-y, or hooded, because I can feel it, even if I’m not actually in the presence of or doing anything with anyone. It could simply be thinking about something. I have terrible bedroom eyes and it almost feels like I’m going to cry.. My head also tilts up a little, naturally. sigh. So weird. Altogether like a blissful paralysis and I can’t really control it. But I guess I’m just trying to ask if anyone else ever feels or acts this way?

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SinlessOnslaught · 26-30, M

I’m not sure I’m following. Are you saying people can see it in your face if you’re turned on sexually, even if it’s in an inappropriate place and time?

Hatzy

Probably a tad, yes. @SinlessOnslaught

CharleyAsianGirl

@SinlessOnslaught guys don’t realize that girl who twirling ends of her hair also very interested. I can’t stop. Not hard to see when women turn on.

SinlessOnslaught · 26-30, M

@Hatzy Do you have anxiety?

SinlessOnslaught · 26-30, M

@CharleyAsianGirl Hmmm I see 😏 That’s good to know. I’ll keep an eye out for that lol.

Hatzy

@SinlessOnslaught In what respect? In general?

SinlessOnslaught · 26-30, M

@Hatzy Lol you’re getting me and Laos mixed up, Hun

Hatzy

@SinlessOnslaught You just tagged me and asked if I had anxiety, is all, and I wasn’t sure quite what you were asking. ^^’

SinlessOnslaught · 26-30, M

@Hatzy Oh okay. You responded so fast, I thought you were responding to Laos lol. Sorry.

Have you been diagnosed with anxiety disorder or have you noticed that you have social anxiety? Or are self conscious? I’m asking because it may not be as noticeable as you think, when you’re turned on in public.

Hatzy

It’s okay. : P

I haven’t been diagnosed with an anxiety disorder, no, although I do have some social anxiety. But mostly self-conscious. @SinlessOnslaught

SinlessOnslaught · 26-30, M

@Hatzy Hm okay. Take comfort in the fact that you may just be blowing it up in your mind.

But, just to be safe, I’ll give you some suggestions to help get those “turned on” feelings to go away in the moment. Does that sound good?

Hatzy

Sure, thank you. @SinlessOnslaught

SinlessOnslaught · 26-30, M

@Hatzy Okay. When you start to feel like that, try shifting your focus to something else. A song that’s playing, a conversation someone’s having, anything. It will be hard at first. Your “turned on” feelings will overpower any other thoughts you have. But with practice, you’ll get better.