How do I stop opening up so easily?

I keep making the same mistake with women and I don’t know why. I can’t even get a first date without my mouth opening up to them and then it causes nothing , but problems for the both of us.

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REMsleep · 41-45, F

You dont need to stop opening up. You are looking at this all wrong. Are you overtalking your date? Are you asking your date questions? Are they interested in what you are saying? Dont be so inward. Focus on your date, it makes them feel special, expounding on any shared interests. I don't see any issue with you opening up so long as you are being a good date. A good conversation is back and forth. The only way you could run out of things to say if she also isn't saying anything.