Why are men idiots??

A man messaged me on hinge, fast forward shared he said, " I looked like a real nice girl and that he is looking for someone to love but is interested in consensual-nonmonogamy", I say thank you I am not interested but good look, and he proceeds to say, " Can I still take you to drinks anyways if you chnage your mind?" IDIOT People irritate me! Like what makes you think because I appear nice that I am going change my mind for you.