What do I do

That is absolutely terrible. I was friends with a black guy in high school and he lived down the street and my grandmother told me to stop talking to that black boy.
As long as the man you want to date is kind, loving, comes from a good family, and has some goals in life then who cares who you date. It’s your choice.
If you brought home someone like a young Denzel Washington or Will Smith that was an actor making millions...would they still disapprove?