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I need to know on a scale of 1-10 how morally wrong you think this is:

A friend from work, we became close.. lots of similar interests and we used to gossip our female conquests with each other...

A (really hot) girl we worked with was one we used to talk about a lot. There was a period of time where we were both hitting on her and she was having a bit of a liberation of her labido...

Well they end up together... nbd. I started dating a different girl and we went on some double dates.

Then it happened.

He relapsed on Roxys. She broke up with him... he stopped talking to all of us and even though I have called and sent texts almost daily, just reaching out and telling him I won’t turn him away, he hasn’t responded to me in months.

Some other friends of mine urged me to contact his Xgf to find out his whereabouts and safety and I did... we talked on the phone and suddenly I realized we were flirting.

She wants to “hang out” later this week...


She’s really really really hot

Ps. Friend status: living at home with parents going to school with functioning (for now) Roxy addiction
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Jonjdw · 46-50, M
How long was you and him friends ? Did you guys do other stuff as friends other that the double dating
GardenSage · 36-40, M
Maybe a year an a half... mostly work friends but we had done a few things outside work .. some things which forge closer friendships.

Maybe I felt we were closer friends than he did... idk. @Jonjdw
Jonjdw · 46-50, M
@GardenSage what’s he going to do. Never talk to you again ? He has ignored you and moved on. Who do you like better him or her. Also you could talk to her about it.
GardenSage · 36-40, M
@Jonjdw I’ve had many of these same thoughts...

Also, she and him were way closer then he and I ever were... and obviously she doesn’t give a shit
GardenSage · 36-40, M
@Jonjdw I sent him a text saying that I need to hear from. Him because he’s the only one who could stop me from doing something..

If he responds, I won’t do it, if he doesn’t, then fuck him
Jonjdw · 46-50, M
@GardenSage I agree.