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I feel like I make my crush uncomfortable

Which is silly because I’m never intrusive..I barely even talk to him in real life. I always try to make sure I respect his space and boundaries....sometimes I feel like I’m a little to respectful of his space because I don’t even approach him much. We mostly just send snaps back and forth but not much conversation happens and it’s probably like one snap a day.

The little interactions that I’ve had with him in person, he’s super awkward. Weird body language and voice. He seems to not really make eye contact a lot and one time he managed to squeak out “hey what’s up.” Before hurrying past me.

I want to ask him to hang out but I feel like I make him uncomfortable just by simply being there 😂 one night I caught him in the parking lot and my friend asked him when he was gonna chill with us and he looked over at me saying “I never get the invite!”

he’s super nice and sweet and sometimes snaps me “good morning!! :)” And one time he actually sent me a smiley face and a heart out of no where so I know it can’t be because he doesn’t vibe with me.

Obviously he was just being nice but I still can’t help but feel like I make him uncomfortable or uneasy or something.....hm..

Some people might think “hey, dumb dumb. He likes you.” But I cant wrap my head around that reality either 😂 I’m just thinking there’s no way 💀

It’s not a big deal so why can’t he just talk to me normally like he does with other people?😂 why does he have to get so awkward around me ugh💀 I mean it’s fine that he is but if he wasn’t, it would help me out a little more here lol
ThePerfectUsername · 70-79, M
[quote]It’s not a big deal so why can’t he just talk to me normally like he does with other people?[/quote]
It sounds like he's as shy around you as you are around him. It works that way sometimes. You can chatter all day to someone you're not bothered about but if that one person walks in you can't say a damn thing for fear you'll sound like an idiot.

Even at my age I still clam up when someone I'm really fond of approaches. I can usually manage to force myself to act more natural but I'd still rather say I care about someone new via email than with my voice.
Sb356 · 26-30, F
I know. I would just think that texting or snap chatting would be easier for someone who’s shy but he’s not very responsive there. However, in person he’s more responsive.

I just can’t help but have my doubts, you know? @ThePerfectUsername
ThePerfectUsername · 70-79, M
OK. So how about next time you see him you hand him a note that reads "I think I like you and this is a formal invitation to chill out with us Friday night. RSVP". He'll probably get all embarrassed and start blushing but by then you'll be half way out the door with your mates leaving him plenty of time to process it and figure out how he's gonna respond. You think there's no way he can possibly like you, but what if he did? What if he actually knew that you were just as nervous as he was? @Sb356
Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F
if you make him uncomfortable it's because he has a crush on you too.. and from what you say it sure sounds like he does.. the looking at you and saying he never gets an invite... the heart

and the reason he doesn't just ask you.. is ... he's just as shy, or more shy even than you.. so one of you is going to have to make a move.. and it might have to be you..
DDonde · 31-35, M

 
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