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ShaythePanTransMan · 22-25, T
No, and I would honestly be worried if someone told me they did that....
However, I do analyze other people. If the chances of them liking me whether because of league or age or especially sexuality (obviously) are too low, I’ll just kill my feelings for them.
I am happy to report I didn’t have to do that for the beautiful man I’m currently dating in person.
However, I do analyze other people. If the chances of them liking me whether because of league or age or especially sexuality (obviously) are too low, I’ll just kill my feelings for them.
I am happy to report I didn’t have to do that for the beautiful man I’m currently dating in person.
iMystery · M
@ShaythePanTransMan I believe that one way or another we all are in fact "guilty" of doing this.
In most cases when we meet someone new, we tend to unconsciously compare them to the ex-whatever-they-may-be.
...matching up traits from previous persons to current ones, trying to rule out certain boxes on the mental checklist.
In most cases when we meet someone new, we tend to unconsciously compare them to the ex-whatever-they-may-be.
...matching up traits from previous persons to current ones, trying to rule out certain boxes on the mental checklist.
ShaythePanTransMan · 22-25, T
@iMystery I mean, I guess, but I didn’t mention that at all in my comment.