I can’t compete

I wish I was good enough for my crush but what can you do...I’m threatened by my competition....I’m not Like her and I don’t have accomplishments like she does

All I have is my weirdness 😂

I guess I’m not too bad...hey, I can draw, I like to play bass, I’m often called cute but who am I kidding...?...i have many different interests and a few hobbies....that’s gotta count toward something right????

UGH but She’s so effortlessly cool and she’s hot asf I literally can’t even come close to matching that.... on top of it she’s really sweet....and I can be kind of angsty..

I’m just a big stupid dork and I’m so sad I feel like he would totally like her. What’s not to like?

And I KNOW that there’s plenty of fish in the sea but coming in last to someone better than me is one of my biggest insecurities that I DONT want to RE LIVE again.

I just pray I don’t re live it again....not for the 100th time😞

I just have the worst luck with stuff like this and it sucks...it really hurts me.

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SW-User

When I found my crush there were lotsa girls crushing on him. But he picked me over all of them. Sometimes you just meet someone and everything clicks. There should never be competition

Sb356 · 26-30, F

It’s kind of funny you say that cause I do feel like we can understand each other to an extent but I don’t wanna start talking now...I have to hang out with him first...very soon. @SW-User

KA9ha · 31-35, M

@SW-User success from any competition will boost your ego..and your morale

JupiterDreams · 31-35

You shouldn't have to compete for someone's affection.
Find a guy who will let you know that you're the only one and never have to fight for his attention.

Sb356 · 26-30, F

I’m not fighting for it...I’m actually trying to get to know him right now and he’s really nice...the only thing is my insecurities are getting in the way...I just can’t get out of my head and think that he’s gonna want to go for the pretty girl and not ugly old me so there’s no point In even trying....my insecurities hold me back and make me miserable as well...everyone says to stop comparing and I understand that’s what I should do...it’s just hard when you’ve experienced that before multiple times...it hurts like hell..@JupiterDreams

quitwhendone · M

Who is this girl? Does her name start with an "O"?

Here's an important piece of advice: If you don't think highly of yourself, NO ONE else will.

KA9ha · 31-35, M

try try try again but never get demoralized,,, will this age ever come back to you for reworking..??? will you get the time later in life

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Sb356 · 26-30, F

Damn rude asf @SW-User

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