Crushing from afar? When does it end?
🤦♀️ I have been crushing on someone for the past few months, I want it to STOP...😂 I try to talk and I end up soundin like a blubbering idiot... more so than usual. 😂
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Gelartsyyy · 22-25, F
Try to limit your interactions with them, if you want it to stop. Maybe don't stalk them on social media 😂 I had a crush that I wanted to end too but it was too hard! But if you want to get to know them better, I suggest befriend them first thru social media so that you don't blubber in front of them lol
GardenSage · 41-45, M
Gelartsyyy · 22-25, F
@GardenSage I guess that works for other people. Though I just suggested for her to talk to him on social media first to get comfortable enough so she could talk to him in person eventually without blubbering 😂
GardenSage · 41-45, M
@Gelartsyyy I hear u... but it’s weird if u think about it.
Consider the roles reversed. A guy has a crush on you, social stalks you to find out about you, then fabricates an opportunity to talk to you and pretend to be organic but already knowing about you...
The fun is in the JOURNEY. Walk up with confidence. If you find yourself being awkward, own it. Make a joke about it, but keep going. Ask each other questions and engage each other’s answers.
That’s how real connections are made.
Consider the roles reversed. A guy has a crush on you, social stalks you to find out about you, then fabricates an opportunity to talk to you and pretend to be organic but already knowing about you...
The fun is in the JOURNEY. Walk up with confidence. If you find yourself being awkward, own it. Make a joke about it, but keep going. Ask each other questions and engage each other’s answers.
That’s how real connections are made.