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I think I voted for all of them
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@SunShineDayDream That’s good. 😊
vetguy1991 · 51-55, M
I might have to say all of the above
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SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@KiwiBird Lost cause?
KiwiBird · 36-40, F
@SimplyTracie You got it. 😂😂😂 Predictive text has alot to answer for.
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@KiwiBird Some of us are just bad at grammar and spelling and even math. 😊

SW-User
Cheating, there's a big deal breaker.
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@SW-User That’s definitely on my list too.
bellybuttonfan17 · 36-40, M
@SW-User My first gf ..! Such an a**hole. Cheated on me and went and confessed to my best friend. As if cheating on me wasn't enough, put him in the most awkward position. A1 bitch if there ever was one.
luctoretemergo · 61-69, M
You forgot one...
“Taking polls”
That’s definitely a deal breaker 😊
“Taking polls”
That’s definitely a deal breaker 😊
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
Peaches · F
@SimplyTracie LOL!😄
quitwhendone · M
Narrow mindedness is at the top of the list. Followed by relationship rules mean nothing (although I am not sure what these rules would be), breaks promises, doesn't make me feel important, and she is always right.
Hates animals is ok as I am not a big animal person. Excessive excuses isn't good but I think I could deal with it. And talking too much I think I could tolerate most of the time.
Hates animals is ok as I am not a big animal person. Excessive excuses isn't good but I think I could deal with it. And talking too much I think I could tolerate most of the time.
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@quitwhendone I take it you’re a good listener.
quitwhendone · M
@SimplyTracie I think I am, I guess. Why do you say that?
sarabee1995 · 26-30, FVIP
My challenge is that I have so many deal breakers that I am perpetually single. 🤷♀️
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@sarabee1995 🤭
quitwhendone · M
Add Lacks empathy to my list. That makes seven now.
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@quitwhendone 🤭
JupiterDreams · 31-35
1, 2, 5 and 6. :P
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@JupiterDreams Those and more for me.
Rayce · M
All of the above
Mamapolo2016 · F
Maybe none of them or maybe all. Depends on the frequency and scope for most of them.
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@Mamapolo2016 How about if he does all the above just once a month?
Mamapolo2016 · F
@SimplyTracie we wouldn’t last three months.
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@Mamapolo2016 Gotcha. 😊
luckranger71 · 51-55, M
Really good list. Maybe not a deal breaker, but certainly a giant red flag is: treats service professionals, e.g., wait staff, bartenders poorly. In my experience, this kind of person is irredeemable. Probably fits under narrow mindedness
luckranger71 · 51-55, M
That’s it! Lacking empathy. An absolute deal breaker. @SimplyTracie
Phobic · 36-40, M
@luckranger71 As a waiter I can agree! I've had some people talk down to me, as if I was below them.
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@luckranger71 I added it. 😊
quitwhendone · M
I voted for five.
quitwhendone · M
@SimplyTracie No, five of the choices. Five, total.
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@quitwhendone Which ones are okay with you?
quitwhendone · M
@SimplyTracie See below. I listed them. But add "liar" since it was a late entry. So that makes six total now.

SW-User
Lies
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@SW-User I had to add that one. 😊
ExtremeNext · 36-40
Snoring
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@Rayce Sleeping peacefully is more important than money.
Rayce · M
@SimplyTracie yaaa for some maybe
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@Rayce Then again there are insomniacs. Right? Perfect relationship

SW-User
All of the above.
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@SW-User I agree. I wonder if it’s asking too much though?

SW-User
Won’t mean I wouldn’t show patience. It’s a dealbreaker if they do nothing to change their ways, no ?@SimplyTracie
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@SW-User Yeah for sure.
BalmyNites · F
Shows they don’t care, by their actions (or lack of)
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@BalmyNites Yeah! We ain’t no backup plan either.

SW-User
Definitely all of the above 😹
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@SW-User I would agree
quitwhendone · M
OK, six now.
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@quitwhendone Okay 😂
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@quitwhendone Which did you add?
quitwhendone · M
@SimplyTracie The one you added, "Liar."
Eddiesolds · 61-69, M
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Eddiesolds · 61-69, M
@SimplyTracie Lol! That's ok.maybe next time.Have a good weekend!
TexChik · F
All of those .
Oster1 · M
There is not one single one of those that I would ever put up with unless she was a billionaire and gave me power of attorney 😁
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@Oster1 Well, some women would put up with abuse for money too. Mea culpa.
Oster1 · M
@SimplyTracie naw, never:)
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@Oster1 😊
Smart23 · 51-55, F
1,4,5,and 7
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@Smart23 You could tolerate the other flaws in men? You’re understanding.
Oster1 · M
All of the above:)
MarmeeMarch · M
yeah !
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@MarmeeMarch Yeah what? 😂
MarmeeMarch · M
@SimplyTracie all the above
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SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@sspec
One can be more involved in a relationship by not societally being in any.
Forgive me but I don’t understand.
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SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@sspec Awesome. You’re welcome. 😊

SW-User
2,3 and 5
5 and 6
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@Dewms Just those two?
Th1nkF1rst · 70-79, M
You left out: Lies & Secrets
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@Th1nkF1rst That’s right
Peaches · F
With mental and abusive behavior, 💥🚪😠I'm out the door!!!👎🏼
Peaches · F
@SimplyTracie YEAH!😉
Rayce · M
@SimplyTracie or Jill
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@Rayce Yeah. Jill for you men.
quitwhendone · M
Which of those are you "guilty" of, if any?
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@quitwhendone Fortunately I’m not in a relationship.
quitwhendone · M
@SimplyTracie Neither am I but I responded as if it were a hypothetical question. So you can still answer it hypothetically.
And why do you say, "Fortunately..."? What's the good fortune of not being in a relationship?
And why do you say, "Fortunately..."? What's the good fortune of not being in a relationship?
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@quitwhendone I’d say all of the above
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
Several. But if he hates animals we could never have a life together. I have always and will always rescue animals.
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@DearAmbellina2113 Aww 🤗
Phobic · 36-40, M
A little bit of all of the above.
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@Phobic No chronic behavior. I understand but which would be a deal breaker if it isn’t just sometimes?
Phobic · 36-40, M
@SimplyTracie Off the list? Hating animals is a top deal-breaker. As someone who works with people (both as waiter and middle school special education teacher), I've learned people who don't like animals are not really the nicest of people.
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@Phobic Someone told me that people who hate dogs aren’t trustworthy.
raysam363 · 31-35, F
The best part is that most of these come together when something is wrong. Wait, not best. Worst. I meant worst.
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@raysam363 Like you’d behave like all that if you were having an affair?
raysam363 · 31-35, F
@SimplyTracie Seems to be the case. Affairs usually check almost all of these boxes. The best can still manipulate your emotions so you can't tell until it hits a breaking point.
ozgirl512 · 31-35, F
... And those below!
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@ozgirl512 There’s a lot below 🤭
ozgirl512 · 31-35, F
@SimplyTracie lol..I was referring to the added two in the poll ;)
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@ozgirl512 Gotcha

SW-User
Narrow minded, relationship rules mean nothing, breaks promises, doesn't make me feel important, is never wrong, liar, and think's they deserve to be worshiped
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@SW-User Not worshiped - just someone important. Right?
Rayce · M
Or spends all your money
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@Rayce That’s a good one. I’ve heard stories of guys losing their paychecks on gambling. 😖
Rayce · M
@SimplyTracie yep, people have problems

SW-User
Quite a few of those
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@SW-User Yeah. Me too.
erosme · 46-50, M
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@erosme Who dat?
erosme · 46-50, M
@SimplyTracie Lovely... Always!
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@erosme Is that Hamlet? Because it definitely don’t look like Shakespeare. 😝
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SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@IstillmissEP I’m glad it’s all covered. 😊

SW-User
1, 2, and 11
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@SW-User Those three are definitely deal breakers for me too.
Pinkstarburst · F
Gonna have to say all of them

SW-User
All the above.
someone who is a liar lacks empathy and does not answer my questions or ignores me gives me the silent treatment and anyone who is capable of ghosting me.
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@Girlyfriendcollecting Absolutely. They would be history.
TanMiaoMiao · 31-35, F
😿
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@TanMiaoMiao 😹😹😹
Pfuzylogic · M
Of what you have listed I would say breaks promises/vows. Cheating and lying mixes with that.
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@Pfuzylogic You’re right
The option for abuse should be included...
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@HootyTheNightOwl Yes you absolutely right. My bad.
JohnOinger · 41-45, M
@SimplyTracie its so funny when HippyJoe insults People
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@JohnOinger He’s a comedian. He should go on SNL
DoubleRings · 51-55, F
any of them to an extreme can be deal breakers but hates animals is the worst.
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@DoubleRings That’s on top of my list too.
UndeadSona · F
Just narrow mindedness I couldn't care about anything else... well lying would suck 🤔 especially big lies actually those too
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@UndeadSona You’re a very understanding person.
tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
All of them plus bad eating habits,bad timekeeping,must be a non smoker,does not listen,arrogant,small penis.
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@tallpowerhouseblonde Those and I imagine people could come up with many other deal breakers.

SW-User
The option. She makes my stomach rise should be added

SW-User
@SimplyTracie Are you going to add it now ?
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@SW-User I’ll consider it. 🤭

SW-User
@SimplyTracie Ok gotcha
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