If you love someone, would you really care about her more than yourself?

[i][c=#BF0080]Why would you want to be with someone who wants to be with someone other than you? You deserve better, let her go. [/c][/i]

Allow? But they are free to do what they want. And if that's what they're doing, they aren't really loving me.

yep, it happens if you love someone more than you love yourself. It's pretty rare though

My advice is to avoid that...