How long should you wait?
How long after a date should you let a guy know what your are looing for without sounding to upfront?
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PirateMonkeyCabinet · 36-40, M
That's really hard to say because it is such an individual thing.
Personally, 15 years ago I'd probably be scared if someone was too upfront. Now I'm at a point where I'd just prefer people to be straightforward right away; wanna discuss the big supposed taboo questions on the first date? Go for it.
Point being that I think it is impossible to give a proper answer here because it depends so much on the personality of the other person and at what point in life they are.
Personally, 15 years ago I'd probably be scared if someone was too upfront. Now I'm at a point where I'd just prefer people to be straightforward right away; wanna discuss the big supposed taboo questions on the first date? Go for it.
Point being that I think it is impossible to give a proper answer here because it depends so much on the personality of the other person and at what point in life they are.