How do i deal with the hurt?

Husband and I split last April and are both now blissfully happy with new partners but we really do not get on.
I am very upset as his girlfriend keeps posting photos of her, my son and ex all together. People keep saying how perfect they all look together and it is destroying me. We are not even divorced yet and I feel its a point scoring exercise. How do I deal with this?

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Th1nkF1rst · 70-79, M

Just accept it!
Seriously!
He's not yours anymore,
you have share the son,
they get to have a life too
and it's not going to change.

Your attitude is the only change that will work.
As long as you allow yourself to get butthurt over every little thing, you'll never have a nice new life whilst looking over your shoulder at these things with dismay and anger.

Jenni855 · 36-40, F

@Th1nkF1rst It's because I know they hate me and I just feel its point scoring and him saying 'She is better for our son.'

Th1nkF1rst · 70-79, M

@Jenni855 So!?

You're going to allow everyday happy things in other's lives to mess up your new "happy" life by keeping the crappy attitude that likely caused the pain & disdain to begin with?

I suggest counseling if you can accept what you're told and are willing to be happy.