Have you forgiven your psycho ex?
If so, how and why? Did time heal old wounds? Did you forgive to move on yourself?
If not, why not?
If not, why not?
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CharlieZ · 70-79, M
My Ex wife was not what is folk called a psycho.
Was (till "recovered") a medically diagnosed psychotic for some decades.
That makes not clear what was really to be forgiven.
I forgave her, anyhow, as a human being, that she (besides her illness) never loved me (her own words).
But not that it took decades for her to confess it.
As to "move", "let go" and related, I honestly find that á la mode concepts alien to my emotional structure.
The worst to say about is that some wounds (not pains, wounds) will always be there, they shape you. Time heals nothing.
The best to say about is that show must go on.
What may do good is what you do in that time, if timely.
Was (till "recovered") a medically diagnosed psychotic for some decades.
That makes not clear what was really to be forgiven.
I forgave her, anyhow, as a human being, that she (besides her illness) never loved me (her own words).
But not that it took decades for her to confess it.
As to "move", "let go" and related, I honestly find that á la mode concepts alien to my emotional structure.
The worst to say about is that some wounds (not pains, wounds) will always be there, they shape you. Time heals nothing.
The best to say about is that show must go on.
What may do good is what you do in that time, if timely.