Why is that when I see a handsome guy, I wanna jump him?

This guy has been trying to ask me out but I said I'm too busy and I'm about to be a senior. I don't understand why he likes me to much. I'm a dork. I live drawing, comics, whatever. I mean I do like this guy a lot and he is a good guy, and HANDSOME. I don't know about this dating thing. I feel like I'm pushing him away. We bumped into each other two weeks. He admitted he had a crush on me in middle school. I really like him but I don't know. He really likes me a lot. I like him too. I just want to jump him but I'm so short (5'1) and he's tall (6'4).

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LadyGrace ·

Boys/men love the chase, by instinct. You've created a challenge for him, which has egged him on to conquer. lol
Usually once they get what they want, they get easily bored and move right on to the next. Like I said...they love the chase...they're mostly all the same. Keep your head. If you like him too, then date him, but there's no rush. The worse thing you could do is get enthralled with lust. Many mistake lust as being love. Boys don't think like girls do. Sex to them, does NOT mean they're in love with you! Not in the least. It's just sex.

At that age, they're more out for lust and will tell you they love you, just to get sex. Be smarter than to fall for that. Have respect for yourself and they will too. The minute you give in, they'll be gone, guaranteed, and so will your reputation. You're much too young to tie yourself down and have babies.

UnlovedDaughter01 · 22-25, F

@LadyGrace Exactly. My dad said boys don't really love a girl they just want to get into a girls pants, not love. He really doesn't want me to date until I'm. 30 or 40 lol
My brothers told me the same thing that most guys want sex from a beautiful girl and break their hearts.