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ShaythePanTransMan · 22-25, T
It’s weird. Why would you do that?
Sweetlikepoison · 26-30, F
@ShaythePanTransMan I’ll get my girlfriend to login and send messages to my friends on Facebook while I’m driving or busy. So she knows all my passwords
ShaythePanTransMan · 22-25, T
@Sweetlikepoison Oh, I still find that weird....
Sweetlikepoison · 26-30, F
@ShaythePanTransMan I don’t have anything to hide so I have nothing to fear. Have you ever done that in a relationship?
ShaythePanTransMan · 22-25, T
@Sweetlikepoison Wow. No, I haven’t. Lol I remember I actually hurt one of my partners a lot because I complained about them and their neediness on a social media and they happened to find it :/ very stupid of me and never did that ever again. It was even worse because that partner was the best in person relationship I’ve ever had and also the sexiest person I’ve ever dated.
Sweetlikepoison · 26-30, F
@ShaythePanTransMan how long ago did you two break up?
ShaythePanTransMan · 22-25, T
@Sweetlikepoison We broke up December 2018.
Sweetlikepoison · 26-30, F
@ShaythePanTransMan if you miss them why don’t you ask them back?
ShaythePanTransMan · 22-25, T
@Sweetlikepoison Because it won’t work out. The main two problems were that he was so damn romantic. He wanted me to bend over backwards for him. I couldn’t take it, especially because some of the ridiculous “couple building” shit he wanted me to do directly triggered my specific anxiety about me making noise. He told me he couldn’t be in a relationship that couldn’t provide those things. The second problem was his family is very poor and mine isn’t. He also didn’t work at the time, and I did. I didn’t want to be paying for everything for him. He now has a job btw and has been working longer than I have since I was...kind of dropped suddenly from my job in April 2019 and never really got another one. Applied too late for summer jobs you know.
There were other problems. I was mentally unstable at the time and was pretty depressed. He has pretty abusive parents and his dad’s in jail and he can’t transport himself because he can’t drive and he’s 40 minutes away...you know...he’s just a little bit a piece of work.
There were other problems. I was mentally unstable at the time and was pretty depressed. He has pretty abusive parents and his dad’s in jail and he can’t transport himself because he can’t drive and he’s 40 minutes away...you know...he’s just a little bit a piece of work.