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Why would a guy tell you you look amazing then a few weeks later tell you you need to gain weight?

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Did you lose weight over the last few weeks? Did he see you naked or more exposed over the last few weeks and thus noticed the need to gain weight? If his tone was malicious, than ignore him. If it was more caring and concerned, then maybe he's worried.
Sassy55 · 41-45, F
I don’t think I lost weight but we had got physically closer :( I don’t get it though I thought I looked good. @FigNewton
@Sassy55 In all honesty, you probably do look good! How you feel about yourself is what is important. Tell someone "your should gain/lose weight" is not the most subtle way to approach the issue anyhow. I would most likely ask if you were comfortable with your weight...or "if you could change anything, what would you change?"....that way he can gage YOUR desires better.

You look good...I'm sure of it!
redredred · M
@Sassy55 If you look good to you, you probably do look good. Trust yourself