How far will u go...

My friend dated a guy for three months - then he just stopped. Stopped calling, stopped talking to her, avoided her. There was no quarrel, no issue she was aware of. She eventually went to his house and literally followed him around the yard while he was mowing grass on the riding mower - WHY?

She never got an answer.

Sometimes you have to create your own closure.

Not a problem for me. My ex was killed in Afghanistan.

Well now here's the thing.. you're [i]never[/i] entitled to be given closure from your ex.

You have to create your own closure.

No matter what happened you have to find your own way to move on.

Text? WhatsApp? Would you contacting them give them false hope though?

I won’t. Closure is a process that involves me, not any words or affirmation from them.

I don't. They left, so I don't try.