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Would you lie about having a one night stand in the past if it would put a current love interest off?

SW-User
liars never win
SW-User
I just think one doesn't need to talk about those things. But if asked id be honest. Whether they like me or not
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
No. Who wants to be with somebody so judgemental
Sassy55 · 41-45, F
You say that but I’d like to meet someone who has strong morals @Keepitsimple
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
Yeah, that’s not for me. I can’t be all godlike and perfect. I’m a real person with flaws. 🤷🏻‍♀️@Sassy55
helenS · 36-40, F
No I wouldn't. I do not think I'd be interested in a person that would be turned off by knowing about my past.
I wouldn't exactly put it all out on the table but if for some peculiar reason I was directly asked I would admit it.
I don't lie, I'm not good at it & if they have a problem with my past then that's their problem.
I'm not attracted to judgemental or self righteous people so I doubt my love interest would care or even be so rude to ask unless they percieved a threat
chrisCA · M
No. I want to date someone who is not a prude when it comes to sex.
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chrisCA · M
@PainfulTruth She is a keeper.
chrisCA · M
@helenS Same here.
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NankerPhelge · 61-69, M
@TheyWhoseNameCanNotBeSpoken Why is everything bottoms on this site? "Butthurt", "covering my ass", etc. Bottoms, bottoms and more bottoms.
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NankerPhelge · 61-69, M
If that's what it takes to put off women who lie about their birthdays, maybe. Still, I'm not very comfortable with the thought of lying.
ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
No. The only way to have an authentic relationship is to be just that, even if it's not easy.
VeronicaPrincess · 61-69
Lie? No. But I wouldn't just blurt it out or anything - it's the past.
ChiyoSKL · 31-35, F
Not sure why past would ever put a person off.
Northwest · M
Why would this conversation ever come up?

If a love interest asks, it would depend on why they're asking. If it's to get to know me better, then I would share the details. If it's to pass judgment, then I would not lie, but they would no longer be a love interest either.
SW-User
If the issue came up, no
SW-User
I never have so nothing to lie about
Not sure you'd have to announce it if they never asked?
The past is the past?
Sassy55 · 41-45, F
Same @SW-User
SW-User
No. If a past decision bothers that person so much, then we need not take things any further.
abe182 · 46-50, M
Is this person afraid to break up?

 
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