Men who stop talking to you as friends because they realise you aren’t interested....
Is this fair? It’s incredibly annoying.
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SW-User
Well, myself I've never stopped talking to someone because of that. Even went through asking a girl out for a date (coffee) recently. She gave me an immediate yes with a smile. Next I knew she was telling me how she's not dating anyone actively, that she is working on herself. She asked me if I would still be interested in the coffee, yes a part of my heart shrunk, why wouldn't it, but I also knew yes because something about her interested me and especially when you barely know the person, why would I ever deny getting to know more further? Even if it becomes just friendship
Sassy55 · 41-45, F
Awww that’s sweet. This is like blatant ignoring after they’ve realised nothing will happen.@SW-User
SW-User
@Sassy55 ?
Sassy55 · 41-45, F
I was talking to a guy for a few days and once he realised I’m not interested just ignored me. He didn’t make it obvious he was talking to me because he wanted to date me (I think)@SW-User
SW-User
@Sassy55 What do you mean by blatant ignoring?
Sassy55 · 41-45, F
Blatantly I mean. I messaged him and he just didn’t answer. @SW-User
SW-User
@Sassy55 Okay, I think I get you now. That's rude of him, but at least his wants are displayed clearly and you don't have to spend any time on the thought of him.