Is cheating a deal breaker for you?
I am 97% sure that my bf slept with someone else on Saturday. My friends are telling me to leave him, but I don't necessarily feel the same way. I want to talk about it and try to fix it. Thoughts?
22-25, F
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Abstraction · 61-69, M
Important rule in relationships:
*** Respect yourself. Respect is the value you put on yourself. Others recognise that value - you give them permission to treat you in a certain way based on this.***
Do you want to fix it because you think it's fixable or because you need him? If it's because you need him, I'd suggest read the rule above.
Sometimes it can be fixed, but it takes character. You can't fix him. He has to have character.
*** Respect yourself. Respect is the value you put on yourself. Others recognise that value - you give them permission to treat you in a certain way based on this.***
Do you want to fix it because you think it's fixable or because you need him? If it's because you need him, I'd suggest read the rule above.
Sometimes it can be fixed, but it takes character. You can't fix him. He has to have character.