Is cheating a deal breaker for you?
I am 97% sure that my bf slept with someone else on Saturday. My friends are telling me to leave him, but I don't necessarily feel the same way. I want to talk about it and try to fix it. Thoughts?
22-25, F
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He is the one who needs to be "fixed". This was not a mistake, if he did this. He deliberately cheated on you and betrayed you. That is not a man I would have around me. I would feel that if he did it once, he will do it again. You cannot change someone like this. If he was a decent man, I feel like he never would have cheated on you in the first place. Where there is no trust, there is no relationship. I think you're making a huge mistake. A person who loves another person, if they were decent, would never cheat on their partner or even think about it. In my opinion, he's a big jerk and he would be out of my life forever. You definitely deserve better.