Are you afraid of falling in love again? By being cheated or betrayed?

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SW-User

I'm afraid of the opening up part of love. Not love itself.

Lonelymanik · 31-35, M

Why the beginning?@SW-User

SW-User

@Lonelymanik I'm never open in the beginning

Lonelymanik · 31-35, M

So you take your time to let someone close to you?which is understandable @SW-User

SW-User

@Lonelymanik Lots of time. Even if they are close, it doesn't mean I'm fully open.

Once I'm fully open with someone, I expect them not to hurt me. I'm very guarded

Lonelymanik · 31-35, M

Yea I have been on that situation a lot and got hurt badly even as a friend which is why I prefer being lonely even though it sucks so bad@SW-User